When I sat down to write about Father’s Day, it was my intention to talk about the positive things and the great things about dads in general and – for me – the great things about being a dad.
Then I started thinking about all the statistics I have read over the last few years as I have been working with men and men’s groups – the few that we’ve had – at our church. And, men, the sad truth is…
WE’RE NOT DOING THE JOB!
There are stats all over the inter-web that show the importance of the presence of a father in the home.
From poverty rates, to high school graduation, to incarceration and salvation the simple fact is that homes with fathers and mothers – sorry ladies, you’re doing the best you can, I get that – are doing better at getting the job done.
Now I am not much of a stat guy. I believe you can make numbers say what you want and depending on your perspective you may focus more on the negative side of a number – whatever. The fact is that as we’re not living up to God ordained responsibilities – and I am talking about men that do and men that don’t claim to follow Jesus Christ.
And yes, I thought it fitting to rail against my brothers on Father’s Day.
The folks at the “National Fatherhood Initiative” have some very scary numbers about what happens when a father is absent from the home – higher poverty, higher incarceration, lower school completion, higher teen pregnancy – all areas that need to be reversed.
I was given a poem from Father’s Day titled “Walk With Me, Daddy” by Helen Bush – see the picture above – the simplicity of what she says is jaw dropping and scares the crap out me.
Fathers, I know our job is tough. I know there is a lot riding on our efforts. I know some of you are out there in the trenches fighting as though a life depends on it, good – because one does.
Maybe your kid’s.
Please, if you’re not living up to your responsibilities as a father or you you’re in a place too dark to even think about how important you are to your children and you have found your way here – please do not continue to do nothing – your kids need you.
I KNOW you ended up here for a reason. There is hope. I know it, I have seen it, I have tasted and accepted it.
Call someone you know, call a local church, send me a message. Do Something today so that next year I don’t have to scold you again.
I love this!
Thank you Kira.
Thank you, Nick. I appreciate the compliment.
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